I'm so frustrated with my family! Help?

Angelinka

My 22 yr old brother and his girlfriend live here because her parents keep kicking her out because she talks back to them and comes home at 3 AM if she even goes home.

Anyways...we are Russian (I was born there, my brother wasnt..)...and I have lived in Irkutsk, Russia from 12 years old to 15 years old with my dad. So I have an accent. I am 17 now.

My brothers girlfriend is from Malaysia, but lived in New Zealand till 3 years ago.

She makes fun of the how I say things with my accent. She constantly puts me down. She and my brother only like Thai or Asian food. Whcih i actually hate...and it's so dumb, I'm expected to cook whatever they want, when they want

Oh yeah, everything I make that is Russian or food I like, smells like "Dead rotting animals" according to her. Even if its just cherry compote or something.

My mom pays everything...feeds this girl every night for a year and a half! My mom is going through a divorce from my dad who has all the money (she had a pre nup), and my brothers girlfriend has no medical insurance...is always sick...my mom pays ER visits out of pocket...and medicine for her...thousands. She buys this girl Betsey Johnson dresses too even! THe girl has a low paying job, but still a job, and has never paid a cent...Oh yah, my bro spends $170 on gourmet chocolate for her on Vday with my moms credit card. Stupid.

My mom doesn't care if they say mean things to me...but if I say something even a little snappy....oh boy.

My mom takes all her anger out on me, and says she wished she had aborted me, and that she'd rather have her as her daughter....! wtf? creepy.

I find this funny. I cook gourmet meals every night for her and clean the house. All while having Lupus. No one ever cares to check how I am doing. Its always about THEM and how "sick" they are when they have the common cold. It's like a huge pity party for my bros girlfriend 24/7...how she was "verbally abused by psychos"

I want to go back to Russia but my mom says "no".

I know things could be worse but she's pissing me off...Im not being physically beat up or anything, but I could be a lot happier...She gets offended when I say I want to leave

I need some guidance on getting a life of my own.
Oh yeah..my mom threatens me with "If you tell your dad about her living in his house and on his money ...you'll be sorry and you'll wreck your life too"

I'm like..okay..? whatever she is talking about.

My dad is nice enough to give her a huge check every month until the divorce is final.

I bet she'll take my child support and use it on his gf, my goodness

Answer
ok - take a breath - yu have a very hectic life at the moment and your getting very tangled and caught up in it all! your mum is going through alot a divorce can bring out all sorts off emotions and pressure and if you dad is getting all the money she is going to be very stressed so she is going to snap out - just keep out of her way and support her like do some chores or buy her dinner and set it up. maybe your mum feels like she has to make up for your brothers girlfriend homelife she is doing a really nice thing for her just let your mum do it and keep a look out with it if it seems at any point that your brothers girlfriend is taking advantage of it then speak to your mother or your brother - also you may want to suggest to you mum when she seems in a good mood and calm that your brothers girlfriend should get health insurance see how that goes down - just support your mum and keep a watch on the money situation - hope this helps good luck

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